Well, this is not an organized video, and I have not discussed what happened with my spouse. He gets angry with me when I have problems of any kind. copyright 2012 Lisa B. Falour, BS, MBA all rights reserved LISA, INC. (EURL) cutecatfaith.com PS: I mentioned the incident to my spouse later and he was highly annoyed with me. He didn't want to discuss it. I could have used a hug and an "I'm glad you are okay," but no. Even virtually, I get blamed for whenever things go wrong, accused of having this victim mentality and not doing anything about it, or worse, that I need to "get over it and move on" even when some great harm has been done to me. It's insulting! In fact, I do try to calmly fight back and deal with stuff, every day. I hate the whole "blame the victim" thing. It's easier for people to throw nasty words and not do anything to help you out or look into it further. You know, you are annoying them by mentioning you've had a problem or think one might be on the horizon -- in fact, without making a hobby out of this, it's a healthy attitude and serves the community well -- cuz do they want you as a disaster case later or would they rather know you might be having a problem, upfront, now? I hope I am being proactive and aware, but who knows? As I look back on this incident, I feel pretty certain that guy's behavior, at least, was very suspect. I was happy, relaxed, nicely dressed, it was dark already, and I had a bag of food on me and a nice handbag. He scrunched down ...